St Bernard

Laïcs Cisterciens - Groupe des Flandres (France)

We are a group of laymen and –women who are attracted by the Cistercian spirituality, and who try to integrate it into our daily lives. We meet approximately once a month at a local monastery (more details on the contact page).

This page is meant to give the reader a brief –and by no means complete!- overview of what Cistercian spirituality is, especially in a lay context.

Autonomy & Companionship

Our relationship with the monastery can be summed up in  two words: AUTONOMY and COMPANIONSHIP.

Autonomy means that we are not an oblature, a third order, or bound in any other kind of hierarchical relationship to the monastery. We want to keep things simple and not get occupied by external signs and administrative concerns. Our group is totally autonomous in our choice of initiatives and in the way we organise ourselves.
It is very important for us to retain this freedom, for it means a freedom from institutional constraints, a freedom to turn towards what is essential.

Companionship means that ours is a link of brotherhood, which joins laypeople and religious together in a shared project; we are companions on a pilgrimage. It is as friends and companions that members of the religious community are part of our group. We  learn from each other, each on his side and in his own way.

Beyond the regular and intense contact with “our” monastery, there are, every couple of years, global and regional meetings of Lay Cistercians. Generally, each community sends one or two lay delegates and a monk or nun from the respective monastery. At our last meeting in Huerta (Spain) in 2008, delegates from Asia, Africa, Europe and the Americas met; the Superiors of the Cistercians of the Strict Observance (OCSO; ‘Trappists’) and of the Bernardine Cistercians (OBE) were also in attendance.

A brief outline of Cistercian Spirituality

Cistercian spirituality is based on the Rule of Saint Benedict, which was written in the 6th century by Benedict of Nursia as a guideline for a monastic community. In the 12th century, as a reaction to certain signs of decadence visible in some Benedictine communities, Saint Bernard of Clairvaux founded a reform community, which was meant to be, in a way, a return to the roots of the Benedictine way of life.
There are
three main cornerstones to this way of life:

1. In his new monastic model St Bernard wanted to stress the importance of love and charity. This is one of the cornerstones of Cistercian spirituality, and it appears frequently in St Bernard’s sermons, such as in this phrase: “That each considers as above him not only the most ancient, but the youngest themselves” (for the Advent Sermon V). But love and charity should not be understood in a sweetish and uncritical way: They can only flourish and bring fruit is they are grounded in a very realistic attitude:
To Each His Own; in other words, each member of a community should give what he can, and receive what he needs.

2. Another cornerstone of Cistercian spirituality is the integration of work and everyday tasks. Cistercians strive to be Contemplatives, whether in silent prayer or in performing daily chores. The aim is to be, in every moment, fully present in the face of God.
Contemplation and action are no longer opposites.

3. Realising this in everyday life is often difficult, and Cistercians frequently
go back to the books, so to speak, to read the great authors of their Order, in order to let their mindsets be nourished at the source. The deepening of the understanding of the main texts of St Bernard and the Cistercian authors is indispensable to live on the Cistercian spirituality.
Thus, the pillars of Cistercian life are Work, Prayer, and what we call “Lectio Divina”, or spiritual reading.

How do laypeople go about living Cistercian spirituality?
Actually,  many of us find that it is not difficult at all to live the Cistercian way in the world. In fact, it seems to make life easier.

 The key point, for Saint Benedict,
it is to be available to God's will. He makes it very clear in his rule that meditation, mission, preaching or studies are not primary purposes of monastic life. They are just means to an end. Which is why it is perfectly possible to live Cistercian spirituality in a lay context.

1 - The first word of the Rule of Saint Benedict is "Listen!":

“LI S T E N  carefully, my child, to your master's precepts, and incline the ear of your heart” (Prov. 4:20).

 These are the first words of the Rue of Saint Benedict, and the can be seen to stress two things: One, the
Lectio Divina; in other words, spiritual reading, as discussed above. .

Second, and closely related, is the
importance of silence, because there is no listening without silence. It means listening and stillness without preconceptions. Just being there, and seeing things as they are. There might be a reason why some of the great champions of the dialogue between Christians and Zen Buddhists are Cistercian monks and nuns.

Silence needs to be learned, and in our modern world it is often difficult to uphold it. We strive to retreat, as often as possible, into what we call our
“Inner Cloister”, from which we gather forces for an active life. We are “in” the world, but not “of” it.
In our layman's life in the world the silence will, for example, consist in keeping silent when it is not expressly required to speak, or when the word risks to be harmful or simply useless. For many of us, it also means taking “time off” in monastic retreats.

2 - Prayer and Work - ORA and LABORA.

 Here the rule becomes a real practical tool in our lives: To find the balance between ORA and LABORA by watching out that work does not absorb all our life. We are to assume the management of our lives, individually, according to our capabilities and needs. Back in our mind, however, is always the question: what is God's plan for me?

 Work is necessary for evolution of humanity and for our personal maturity. But it is not first. To us, what comes first is “Being”. “Making” is secondary to it.
Work puts us in the service of the common good and our most humble tasks are acts of the Creation. Anchored in the concreteness of life, work puts us in the service of each other.

As to prayer, it is probably the most important aspect of our life:  “Learn to ask God, learn to raise your heart as you raise your hands” (St Bernard - Sermon on Song of Songs - Sermon 9.7) Prayer can be common or solitary. St Benedict envisages both in his Rule. Common prayer is an integral part of our meetings. Beyond that, we engage in many forms of prayer, each according to his personal disposition.  One specificity of our prayer life is that we stay in union  every evening at 9 pm, when each of us prays for the others, wherever he may be. We do this to share in the mystery of the religious community which unites believers.


3 - Lifestyle: Fraternal, Simple, and “To Each His Own”.

Ours is a very diverse group in terms of age, profession, family status and lifestyle, and it is maybe precisely because of this that we feel a bit like a family: we live a mixture of closeness and respect for the other’s differences. Some of us are actively engaged in parish work, others live more as solitaries. Once a month, we pray, eat, read, talk, and laugh together at “our” monastery. Our meetings are structured around the monastic offices, the Lectio Divina, and a chapter from the Rule of Saint Benedict.

 The other important point is
simplicity of life. Again living according to the rule of “to each his own”, we strive to live without anything superfluous and with enough time for prayer and reflections. We try to be “in the world, but not of this world”. Maybe a good metaphor for the lifestyle we try to uphold is the architecture of Cistercian abbeys: Simple but beautiful, solid and providing lots of breathing space.

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We are aware of the fact that this presentation of Cistercian spirituality is very incomplete. But we hope we gave you a taste. For more, check out some of these
electronic resources:

Our international Website: The International Association of Lay Cistercian Communities

a very nice site on the Cistercian life & the Cistercians in Britain

The Trappist Cistercian Order

The Order of Saint Benedict in Britain

The Rule of Saint Benedict

Excellent texts by the Abbot of Scourmont, Dom Armand Veilleux, much of it in English:
SCRIPTORIUM SCOURMONT

A great Cistercian thinker: Thomas Merton

More on Merton in the Thomas Merton Internet Bibliography

Monos: A Centre for the Study of Monastic Culture & Spirituality
 

 

 Material auf Deutsch

Die Benediktusregel

Links zu Ordensgemeinschaften in Deutschland hier

Zisterzienseroblaten & Laienzisterzienser

Gesellschaft der Freunde Christlicher Mystik e.V.

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